I was about two hours into an eight-hour flight when hunger finally won.
I hadn’t eaten much before boarding, and the airline meal schedule was still a mystery, so I pulled out the burger I’d bought at the airport. It wasn’t fancy—just a basic burger wrapped in foil—but at that moment, it felt like a lifesaver.
I’d taken maybe two bites when the woman seated next to me let out a loud sigh.
At first, I ignored it. Planes are full of sighs—people are uncomfortable, tired, cramped. I figured it had nothing to do with me.
Then she sighed again. Louder.
I glanced sideways and noticed she was staring directly at my hands.
“Do you have to eat that?” she said.
I blinked, a little surprised. “Sorry?”
“That,” she said, gesturing dramatically at my burger, “smells awful.”
I was confused. It didn’t smell any stronger than any other food on a plane. But before I could respond, she continued.
“I don’t eat meat,” she announced. “The smell makes me sick.”
I paused, unsure what she expected me to do with that information.
“Oh,” I said finally. “Okay.”
And then I took another bite.
Apparently, that was the wrong answer.
She shifted in her seat, crossed her arms, and muttered loudly enough for me to hear, “Some people are so inconsiderate.”
I put my headphones on and turned back to my movie, assuming that would be the end of it.
It wasn’t.
A few minutes later, she tapped me on the arm.
“I asked you nicely,” she said. “You could at least wait until later.”
“I’m sorry,” I replied, trying to keep my tone calm, “but I’m hungry, and this is my seat too.”
Her face tightened. “Unbelievable.”
She pressed the call button.
I watched as the flight attendant approached, still chewing, wondering how on earth this had escalated so quickly.
The woman launched into her complaint immediately.
“I don’t eat meat,” she said again, as if this were a universal rule everyone should follow. “The smell is making me nauseous. I shouldn’t have to deal with this for eight hours.”
The flight attendant turned to me politely. “Sir, could you tell me what’s going on?”
I explained that I was eating a burger I’d purchased in the terminal and that I’d already tried to ignore the situation.
The attendant nodded slowly.
“Ma’am,” she said to the woman, “I understand strong smells can be unpleasant, but passengers are allowed to eat food they’ve brought on board.”
The woman scoffed. “So you’re just going to let him make me sick?”
The flight attendant didn’t miss a beat.
“Unfortunately,” she said calmly, “we can’t control what other passengers eat. If you’re feeling uncomfortable, I can offer you a mask, some tea, or see if there’s another seat available.”
The woman looked offended, as though she’d just been deeply insulted.
“I shouldn’t have to move,” she snapped. “He’s the problem.”
The flight attendant gave a small, professional smile. “He’s following airline policy.”
There was a long pause.
Finally, the attendant turned back to me. “Sir, you’re free to finish your meal.”
And just like that, the conversation was over.
The woman sat in silence for a while, fuming. She pulled her sweater up over her nose dramatically, as if she were surrounded by toxic fumes instead of a hamburger.
I finished my burger slowly, not to be spiteful, but because now I was very aware of every bite.
A few rows ahead, someone opened a bag of chips. A couple across the aisle shared a sandwich. The cabin filled with the normal mix of airplane smells—coffee, snacks, reheated meals.
She didn’t complain about any of those.
Eventually, she took off her sweater, crossed her arms again, and stared straight ahead for the rest of the flight.
About an hour later, a different flight attendant passed by and quietly offered me a free drink “for the inconvenience.”
I thanked her, a little amused by the whole thing.
The rest of the flight was uneventful. No more comments. No more sighs.
But the whole situation stuck with me.
Planes are shared spaces. No one gets everything exactly the way they want it. You deal with crying babies, snoring seatmates, cramped legs, and yes—sometimes food smells you don’t love.
Having preferences is fine. Expecting the entire world to rearrange itself around them is not.
I wasn’t rude. I wasn’t breaking any rules. I was just eating dinner at 30,000 feet.
And apparently, that was enough to start a small midair drama.
Still, I finished my burger.
And I’d do it again. 🍔✈️
