I was supposed to meet Ethan at the hospital at 9:00 a.m.
He promised heโd be there โ promised heโd hold my hand before I went in for surgery.
But as the clock kept ticking, all I had was silence.
No Ethan. No text. No missed call.
Just me, sitting alone in the back of a cab, calling his number over and over again.
Only to hear the automated voice say:
โThe number you have dialed is currently busy.โ
By the time I checked into the hospital, he had finally called.
โMia, Iโm so sorryโฆ I really wanted to be there, butโฆ something happened. Leah, sheโshe called me this morning and said she was crying and going to hurt herself. I didnโt know what to do.โ
I didnโt even argue.
I simply hung up.
Because I already knew โ she did it on purpose.
Let me tell you how I met Leah.
She was my colleague. Bright, charming, and a little too friendly at times.
One lunch break, she invited me out. Her boyfriend came along. So did Ethan.
Somewhere between appetizers and dessert, Leah decided sheโd play matchmaker.
โEthanโs single, youโre single. You two should totally go out!โ she giggled.
I smiled politely but felt awkward. Still, a few days later, Ethan messaged me.
And before I knew it, he was pursuing me โ earnestly.
Leah, of course, was always around to โhelp.โ
She told him what flowers I liked. What I hated. How I took my coffee.
She was everywhere in the background, orchestrating things.
At first, it seemed sweet.
Then it became suffocating.
Every date Ethan and I had โ Leah found a reason to show up.
She clung to Ethan like static. Whispered into his ear. Gave him orders, disguised as โfriendly advice.โ
If I frowned, I was being oversensitive.
If I questioned their closeness, I didnโt โunderstand their friendship.โ
It was exhausting.
Then came Ethanโs birthday.
He rented a beach house and invited a crowd.
While I was sweating in the kitchen with a few girls trying to prep dinner, Leah strolled in like a queen.
She leaned toward me and whispered:
โEthan doesn’t like pepper. Only eats shredded potatoes, not cubes. And heโs allergic to peanuts, by the way.โ
I paused. Put down my knife.
โThen why donโt you cook for him?โ
She grinned.
โOh no. Iโm just the best friend. Youโre the girlfriend. This is your time to shine.โ
The sarcasm dripped off every syllable.
We were mid-argument when Ethan walked in.
He pulled me aside and said:
โCome on, babe. Donโt be mad. Donโt take her seriously. Sheโs like a dude in a girlโs body.โ
Leah burst into crocodile tears and punched him lightly in the back.
โEthan! Even if you begged, I wouldnโt be your friend anymore!โ
And just like that, she ghosted him.
But heโฆ changed.
He became distant, distracted.
He couldnโt even tell a dress from a jacket. Poured vinegar into noodles without thinking.
I confronted him.
โDo you still want to be with me? Or are you just mourning your precious friendship with her?โ
He denied it, of course.
Claimed he was just upset about losing a 20-year friendship.
Asked me not to make him choose. Said I was overthinking.
Two weeks later, I was diagnosed with uterine fibroids.
It wasnโt life-threatening, but it wasnโt nothing either.
I was scared. I needed support.
Ethan promised heโd be with me on surgery day.
But when Leah cried wolf โ he disappeared.
After his sorry excuse of a phone call, Leah called me next.
โMia, letโs get something straight. We are closer than family. You wouldnโt even know him if it werenโt for me.โ
โWeโve never slept together, okay? Never even kissed. But you still canโt compare. You donโt belong in his world.โ
My hand shook with rage.
โYouโre right, Leah. Youโre different. So special. Soโฆ pure. Youโre the only woman I know who can latch onto someone elseโs boyfriend and still claim moral high ground! Congratulations. You win. Tell Ethan weโre done. And that he should stay as far away from me as you do from self-awareness!โ
I went into surgery alone.
Well, not quite alone.
Just as they were wheeling me in, someone ran up, out of breath.
โMia! Wait!โ
The gurney jerked slightly as the nurses paused, glancing back toward the voice. I turned my head and saw Ethan โ hair disheveled, chest heaving, hospital badge clutched in his hand like it could explain everything.
I wanted to ignore him. To shut my eyes and pretend I was dreaming. But I couldnโt.
โWhat are you doing here?โ I asked, my voice flat, barely above a whisper.
โI cameโฆ I had to come,โ he said breathlessly, stepping closer. โPlease, Mia. I know I messed up. I shouldโve been here earlier. I shouldnโt have picked her over you.โ
I stared at the ceiling. Cold, sterile. โBut you did.โ
He reached for my hand, and I let him touch itโjust for a second.
โI donโt love her,โ he blurted. โI never did. Sheโs manipulative. Controlling. But I was too blind to see itโฆ until this morning.โ
I looked at him then. Really looked. He seemed smaller somehow. Or maybe I had just gotten stronger.
โWhat happened this morning?โ
He swallowed hard. โShe admitted it. She admitted she faked everythingโher breakdown, the threats, even the tears. Said she wanted to see if Iโd choose her over youโฆ and I did.โ
He clenched his jaw. โBut when I saw your name on the surgery list today, I panicked. I knew I couldnโt live with myself if something happened to you and I wasnโt there.โ
The nurse gently tapped the bedrail. โWe have to go.โ
Ethan looked desperate. โPlease, Mia. I donโt expect you to forgive me right now. But let me be here when you wake up. Let me earn back even a fraction of the trust I lost.โ
I exhaled deeply.
Then I said the only thing I could.
โFine. You can wait. But donโt wait for us to go back to how things were.โ
His face fell, but he nodded slowly.
As the gurney rolled forward and the doors swung open into the cold, sterile operating room, I held my breath. I was scared. Hurting. But I wasnโt alone. Not anymore.
And that made all the difference.
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