{"id":1128,"date":"2025-07-21T16:43:28","date_gmt":"2025-07-21T16:43:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/states-news.com\/?p=1128"},"modified":"2025-07-21T16:43:28","modified_gmt":"2025-07-21T16:43:28","slug":"high-school-pallbearer-services-fill-a-need-when-the-deceased-dont-have-family","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/states-news.com\/?p=1128","title":{"rendered":"High school pallbearer services fill a need when the deceased don&#8217;t have family"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>&#8220;The real service &#8230; is when you can show up and be present to people.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Grady Leneghan, 17, remembers certain details about the day he served as a pallbearer at a funeral in Cleveland last September.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One thing that stands out: It was a Greek Orthodox ceremony, meaning the Mass progressed differently than Leneghan, a Roman Catholic, was used to.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But for Leneghan, perhaps the most striking thing about this funeral was that he did not know the person who had passed away. In fact, there were no loved ones of the deceased there at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cNo family really could attend because this person did not have any family,\u201d Leneghan tells TODAY.com.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Leneghan, a senior at Saint Ignatius High School in Cleveland, served as a pallbearer at this funeral as part of his school\u2019s St. Joseph of Arimathea Pallbearer Ministry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The program, which has been running for more than two decades, invites juniors and seniors to volunteer to carry \u201cmen and women who have little or no family to their final place of rest,\u201d according to the school\u2019s&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ignatius.edu\/faith-in-action\/christian-action-team\/arimathea-pallbearer-ministry\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">website<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"550\" height=\"737\" src=\"https:\/\/states-news.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Screenshot-2025-07-21-184019.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1130\" srcset=\"https:\/\/states-news.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Screenshot-2025-07-21-184019.png 550w, https:\/\/states-news.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Screenshot-2025-07-21-184019-224x300.png 224w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 550px) 100vw, 550px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Leneghan says that while serving at funerals for people who have little or no family is \u201cpretty heartbreaking and sad,\u201d it also helps him appreciate the role family plays in his own life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIt makes you appreciate more of what you are, and who you are as a person,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Saint Ignatius High School launched its pallbearer program in 2003, starting with 12 students who served three funerals in the first year. Now, about 400 students at the school participate, serving between 150 to 180 funerals annually.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are other schools around the country that now run their own pallbearer ministries, including Catholic Memorial, a college preparatory school in West Roxbury, Massachusetts; University of Detroit Jesuit high school and academy in Detroit; and McQuaid Jesuit, a private preparatory school in Rochester, New York.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Blaise Weidmann, 16, a junior at McQuaid Jesuit, says he and his fellow student pallbearers underwent special training to serve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe had to learn how the casket comes out of the hearse, how we carry it,\u201d he tells TODAY.com. \u201cWe practiced a few times carrying and just getting the steps and how fast or slow we have to walk with it.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Their role at a funeral isn\u2019t simply to carry the casket, but also to offer spiritual support, sometimes joining in prayer and singing hymns \u201cto honor the soul of the person who passed away,\u201d Weidmann says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Student pallbearers typically volunteer at a range of services, including funerals for poor or elderly people with no surviving family members, as well as for nuns and people outside the Roman Catholic faith.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s really extraordinary to take note of someone who was left to die in the cold on the street,\u201d Richard Mazyck, campus ministry and service coordinator for University of Detroit Jesuit school,&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.today.com\/parents\/teens\/teens-volunteer-pallbearers-homeless-military-veterans-rcna124391\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">told TODAY.com in 2023<\/a>. \u201cThey have no family and friends that anyone is able to contact. &#8230; It\u2019s a reminder that every person, especially in the Christian religious tradition, is made in the image of God and is deserving of a particular regard and respect.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Saint Ignatius students also participate in an annual service at Potter\u2019s Field, a burial ground for the homeless in the Cleveland area.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019ve served at funerals where literally the only people in attendance are the six pallbearers, the adult that drives them, the funeral director and the priest,\u201d Pat Valletta, who coordinates Saint Ignatius\u2019 pallbearer program, tells TODAY.com. \u201cAnd we\u2019ve been at other funeral homes or funerals where there\u2019s been 100 people there.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Even when family members of the deceased person are present, student pallbearers can serve as a valuable source of comfort.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Evan Solar, 18, a senior at Saint Ignatius, remembers one touching moment he shared with a woman during a funeral on the west side of Cleveland in April.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe always hand out a card, a sympathy card to the family,\u201d he said. \u201cThe woman who I handed it to \u2026 wasn\u2019t being super emotional throughout, but when we handed her the card, she broke down in tears and was just so appreciative and thankful.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"547\" height=\"354\" src=\"https:\/\/states-news.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Screenshot-2025-07-21-184226.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1131\" srcset=\"https:\/\/states-news.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Screenshot-2025-07-21-184226.png 547w, https:\/\/states-news.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Screenshot-2025-07-21-184226-300x194.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 547px) 100vw, 547px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Schools with pallbearer programs have served veterans as part of their services. In 2017, Catholic Memorial college preparatory school began hosting funeral processions for veterans who died without friends or loved ones.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Services often take place in the school\u2019s chapel, or in the school\u2019s gym in front of the entire student body.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cKids begin to recognize that those are people who have sacrificed much and have displayed incredible courage, duty and honor,\u201d Peter Folan, president of Catholic Memorial, told&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.today.com\/parents\/teens\/teens-volunteer-pallbearers-homeless-military-veterans-rcna124391\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">TODAY.com<\/a>&nbsp;in 2023.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cAnd now in their final moments, for a whole host of reasons, some of which we don\u2019t know enough about each individual, they are alone \u2014 and we\u2019re here to stand with them and bring them into our community,\u201d he continued. \u201cThat has a transformational impact on a 15- or 16-year-old young man.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Catholic Memorial recently shared an&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DB9qH2Ovx0k\/?hl=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Instagram photo<\/a>&nbsp;of its student pallbearers serving at the funeral of Pfc. John Joseph Winters, a U.S. Army veteran.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWinters died with no remaining friends or family to celebrate his life. On Monday morning, we were his family,\u201d the school captioned the Nov. 4 post.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The school said a funeral Mass was held in the school chapel and that \u201cfollowing Mass, an honor guard gave Mr. Winters full military honors by playing Taps and folding and presenting our nation\u2019s flag.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For Catholic schools with a pallbearer ministry, serving at funerals is a way for students to carry out a charitable act known within Catholicism as a \u201ccorporal work of mercy.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"552\" height=\"342\" src=\"https:\/\/states-news.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Screenshot-2025-07-21-184253.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1132\" srcset=\"https:\/\/states-news.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Screenshot-2025-07-21-184253.png 552w, https:\/\/states-news.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/07\/Screenshot-2025-07-21-184253-300x186.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 552px) 100vw, 552px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe really see it \u2026 as something that\u2019s honorable and meaningful, but it\u2019s also directly linked to Catholic social teaching, and it is a really concrete way to put that work of mercy into practice,\u201d Adam Baber, director of service and justice at McQuaid Jesuit, tells TODAY.com.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For Solar, the Saint Ignatius senior, serving as a pallbearer feels meaningful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe\u2019re all called to serve, and that doesn\u2019t always look like &#8230; building a well,\u201d he says.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Solar said one of his teachers once talked about how throwing money at a problem isn\u2019t always the right solution: \u201cThe real service, and what really makes an effect on people, is when you can show up and be present to people. 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